My response to @dakotameyer0317 recent posts on me.
Just wanted to check in one last time and thank you all for the pouring so many of you did into my heart today after an online attack and getting kicked from a conference. Here’s some images from the first evening’s social.
This too shall pass and while I am not always the best believer, I do think these moments in life make us stronger with a higher power giving us what we’ve been called to handle!
Onward!
Here is my story on what happened during MIC 2025. A business decision was made to kick me out over false information alleged about me. I hold no ill will towards the organizers and they were very professional in how they handled it after a person accosted me for supporting victims of false allegations. I hope you all enjoy the rest of the event.
It is disheartening to see false statements being made about my work. For the past 4.5 years, the S.O.S. Podcast has sought to provide a balanced platform for both survivors of sexual assault and individuals who have faced false accusations. I made several good-faith efforts to engage Janae Sergio in constructive dialogue, including at the recent VFW convention, but she declined those opportunities.
When her conduct in my comments became harassing, I blocked her to protect myself and maintain a respectful space. Unfortunately, her most recent video reflects the same pattern of behavior.
Additionally, the claim that I give out people’s contact information without their permission is not correct. In one instance, I offered to connect Kelly AH (her LinkedIn name) with an advocate in the false accusation space. They had a respectful dialogue which, while clearly stressful for Kelly, was conducted appropriately. I then told her she could block me if the subject matter was too triggering, and she chose to do so.
I have nothing to hide and welcome anyone to review my receipts if they wish. My hope remains that Janae and I can one day engage in an open and respectful dialogue in a public setting.
P.S. I choose not to include her posts because a) she is blocked on my socials b) if you do not know what this is referring to or care to know, feel free to scroll on by c) you can search her for more information.
Service members possess leadership and problem-solving skills applicable to public office. Explaining military processes to civilians is key. #military #leadership #politics #government #skills #careerskills #civilians #publicservice
Secretary of VA talks about the importance of service. Claims backlog lowest in five years. “No veteran should have to beg for the benefits they earned.”
Amen, as I have said the VA process was nothing but good to me.
Another amazing day meeting fellow patriots!!! The best part about being here is the sense of community and support. It’s palatable the beautful atmosphere where people of all walks of life coming together.
Service members bring invaluable skills. Often, they face barriers entering new communities or struggle to express their experiences. Their insights could restore trust in government. #ServiceMembers #Leadership #Community #Transparency #Accountability #PublicService #MilitaryLife #Veterans
Great first evening at the Military Influencer - if you see me wandering around, swing by and say hello!!! 👋 No matter what you believe, we are all in it together. #Community
Marines are expected to assume risk to protect the vulnerable. This message helped service members understand why they were assuming risk in various scenarios. #MarineCorps #MilitaryService #RiskManagement #ProtectTheVulnerable #ServiceMembers #DutyAndHonor #MilitaryLife
People have more rights than they realize, but understanding the law is key. Lawyers advise, but commanders must understand legal frameworks to assess risks effectively. #law #legalrights #lawyers #podcast #legalknowledge #riskassessment #decisionmaking #legaladvice
Yesterday my dear friend Bill Brown urged NJ lawmakers to add veterans as a protected class!!! Great job and we’ll be tracking closely!
Here’s where we discussed at length on the S.O.S. Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/live/_sRY6QURftQ?si=Ze11bC9fldVkFoFV
Sad the way others try to cream you for a difference of opinion. This person repeatedly harassed me online so I did the logical thing and unfriended him. Boo Hoo. He then goes crying to a private FB group for the naval public affairs alumuni for sympathy. Sometimes we think we can go behind closed doors to drum up opposition to the DoW, but I am always watching.
Remember - if the only reason you engage with me is to repeatedly disagree on the same issues and I have already politely agreed to disagree, your repeated snide comments can go elsewhere. In this case, they certainly did!
My remarks tonight at a vigil held in Biloxi for Charlie Kirk. Such wonderful people coming together. A great turnout with just one amazing lady who put out a call and 300 to 400 patriots paid their respects tonight.
So one of the ways we’ve been building for pull-ups is doing four at a time for a total of six reps. Its nice to see the effort starting to pay off. Next up is getting my height up a bit, but I figure that will come with time. #FitNotFat
Most people don't understand the military justice system until they're immersed in it. There's not much exposure on this issue, and shame makes it hard to discuss. #MilitaryJustice #SexualAssaultAwareness #CriminalJusticeReform #Navy #JusticeSystem #Advocacy #Awareness #Military
Going to be 🔥 my friend!!! Thank for leading the charge on this!!!
The military justice system needs fixing. Forgiveness is extended, but mistakes must lead to improvement. The responsibility to fix it falls on the Department of War. #MilitaryJustice #CriminalJusticeReform #DepartmentOfWar #DueProcess #Accountability #Forgiveness #SystemicChange
Today I want to give sincere thanks to the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs, Optum Serve, and the Mississippi VA office.
I know not everyone has the same experience, and my story doesn’t erase anyone else’s. But I would be remiss if I didn’t express deep appreciation for the outstanding way I’ve been treated at every step of this journey.
From my very first TAPs class in London three years ago, where a VA representative walked us through available services, to registering at the Biloxi VA and making my first appointments, the process has been seamless. I followed their guidance, carefully documenting every injury from active duty, and later worked with a state VSO to build my claim—adding buddy statements, testimony, and even a last-minute injury. My three C&P exams—held in Mobile, Biloxi, and via telehealth—were handled with professionalism and courtesy by Optum staff.
Just days after retirement, I received my rating—exactly as promised. That same efficiency carried over when I registered at the VA, where staff were professional, kind, and prompt. Mental health support was immediate: I was seen the same day, referred back to my active-duty therapist through community care, and notified within hours that the referral was complete. The very next day, the Biloxi VA called to ensure I understood all the benefits available, even sending a detailed follow-up email with additional resources I hadn’t known about.
Throughout it all, I received timely reminders, clear instructions, and direct communication from claims agents when documentation was needed. Every touchpoint reflected competence, care, and respect.
I realize not everyone’s path is like mine, but I believe in giving credit where it’s due: my experience with the VA, Optum Serve, and MS VA has been nothing short of excellent.
I always find it interesting how uneven working certain body parts are. My upper builds fast, but lower body is a struggle. Others have an opposite issue. There’s contentment with just appreciating that I can move my body though! Many people cannot because of chronic pain. I am fortunate.
